Showing posts with label sisters. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sisters. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 26, 2013

We Need Shaving Cream. LOTS of Shaving Cream.


Here it is... our final week of 3 days at daycare. Next week, R's time at daycare will be cut to just one day, because it's better for Mommy and Daddy's wallets.

She's been doing so well there. Being around other kids and listening to an adult other than Mommy and Daddy has paved the way towards her going to preschool. She still plays on her own instead of with the other kids, and she doesn't speak up in group discussions, but I credit that to her introversion. I recently read the book, "Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking" by Susan Cain, and it has opened my eyes to how introversion is genetic. We're just wired differently, introverts and extroverts. And you can get an introvert to eventually adapt to the extroverted world, but at the end of the day, they just want some time to themselves. I'm okay with that. I'm an introvert, too, after all; who better to understand her than her bookish mother? So if the girl wants to play by herself at daycare, let her play by herself. She has a good friend at Storytime, and she plays with her sister here at home. She'll be alright.

Poppy will certainly enjoy more time with her sister. She gets bored when it's just her and I at home. She constantly clings to my leg, waiting for me to pick her up again. But when Rosemary is home, the two of them get into such mischief. They had a blast on Monday.

I had bought a Lysol automatic soap dispenser to help Rosemary be more independent in the bathroom. She knows how to move her stool back and forth between the big potty and the sink, and she can climb up on the big potty all by herself now. The only thing she still needed my help with was working the pump on the soap bottle. I thought the automatic dispenser would work so well. And it did... a little TOO well.

The trouble started in the morning when Rosemary's toothpaste looked especially foamy in her mouth. Yup, the girl had put soap on her toothbrush. Then R washed her hands after lunch. I heard the water going for awhile. How long does it take rinse peanut butter off your hands? I walked in there and saw that the entire bottle of soap had been emptied. Sink, stool, floor... there was soap everywhere. Miraculously, somehow Rosemary avoided getting soap on herself. I cleaned all of that up, and then I heard Poppy start to grunt like she was pooping. I ripped the diaper off of her and put her on the little potty, but there was already some poop in the diaper which got on my hands. Because Rosemary had finished off the soap bottle, I had to run to the kitchen to get soap for my hands. When I returned to the bathroom, Poppy had climbed off the potty, but was still peeing and pooping. I got her cleaned up and then set her in the living room to play while I cleaned up the bathroom. There was no toilet paper to pick up the poop off the floor because Rosemary had used it all, so I ran to the basement to grab another roll. When I came back up, Poppy had knocked over my large sports mug full of water that Rosemary had removed from the kitchen table and set on the couch.

Are you laughing yet?

There will certainly be more stories like this since Rosemary will be home more often. I bought the girls wet shoes so I can take them to the splash pad. I am following homeschool and playtime blogs, trying to get ideas to keep them entertained and out of mischief. One thing's for sure: it looks like I need to buy shaving cream. LOTS of shaving cream. (Why do all of the cool crafts involve shaving cream?)


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Sunday, May 26, 2013

Play


The girls are starting to play together.
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Poppy is always interested in whatever Rosemary is doing. Rosemary tries not to be annoyed about it, but you just know she so totally is.
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They do well playing side by side until Poppy knocks over Rosemary's block tower.
R is all about her block towers.
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They both love the swings.
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And here they are providing some after-dinner entertainment. (warning: turn down your volume)



Looking forward to seeing their relationship continue to develop.  photo heart_zpsc4d0389a.jpg
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Saturday, November 24, 2012

6 Months, Sisters


6 Months

Poppy is 6 months old now.

6 month checkup
She can't sit up on her own just yet, but she's getting there.

Ohh.....
One thing that is holding her back from sitting up on her own is her strong desire to lean forward. Her spinal erectors can't pull her back up, yet!

Such a Sweet Face
Isn't she gorgeous? She's been called the Gerber Baby. :-)


Sisters

The sister bond is developing.
Sister Snuggles

I don't push it. I'm sure this will change later when Poppy starts crawling and getting into things, but for now I don't badger Rosemary to watch her sister for me. If Poppy is crying, instead of straight-up telling Rosemary to entertain Poppy, I problem solve with her: "Aww, Poppy's crying. What do you think is the matter? Is she sad that she can't reach that toy? Do you want to give the toy to her? Oh, look at how happy that made her!" This way she feels more like it's her idea, or something that she wants to do, instead of just grudgingly obeying what Mommy tells her to do.

Playing Together
I love watching their relationship mature.


Catch y'all later.
Too Cool for School
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Sunday, June 3, 2012

On the Eve of Deliverance


On D-Day (discharge day) Eve,

I said goodbye to my favorite lunch spot.
Saying Goodbye to the Hospital

I took a picture to remember Poppy's home for the last four weeks.
Remembering the NICU

I washed extra small diapers, and hung them up to dry.
Prepping for Poppy

I pulled a box of baby bottles up from the basement and washed those, too.
Prepping for Poppy


On D-Day Eve, I am so filled with excitement over finally having the entire family together. For the last four weeks we have been operating as separate units: me and Poppy, Grandad and Rosemary, and Senpai bouncing back and forth from work, home, and the hospital. Tomorrow, finally, we will be a complete family again. For the first time.

Rosemary has no idea what's coming.

I feel sorry for her, to finally get me back after my having been so distant all this time, but with Poppy in my arms. I can't belong to just Rosemary anymore. I belong to both of them. I know this feeling can't be new; many mothers have experienced it before. I just wish I knew what to say or do to make the transition easier. No, seamless. I don't know. I don't have the answers. I just have to take it moment by moment and see what happens.

On D-Day Eve... I can't wait to have my baby home.


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